After leaving her abusive husband, Michelle Bulang found herself stuck in a marriage she couldn’t legally end because divorce is not allowed in the Philippines, except for annulment, which is costly and difficult to obtain. However, a new bill called the Absolute Divorce Bill has been making progress in Congress, offering hope for people like Bulang. President Ferdinand Marcos Jr has expressed openness to legalizing divorce, with support from 50 percent of Filipino adults. Despite opposition from influential conservative Catholic groups and politicians, there is optimism that the bill could pass.
Bulang’s story highlights the challenges faced by many Filipinos trapped in abusive or unhappy marriages. Some resort to extreme measures, such as moving abroad to seek divorce, while others struggle to afford annulment. The high cost and strict legal requirements for annulment make it inaccessible for many, leaving them in situations of abuse and trauma.
Supporters of the bill argue that legal separation is not enough to protect individuals in toxic marriages and that divorce should be an option. However, opponents, including some senators and Catholic groups, believe that marriage is sacred and should not be easily dissolved. The debate over the divorce bill reflects broader societal beliefs and values in the deeply Catholic country.
As the Senate considers the bill, there is uncertainty about its fate, given the upcoming elections and political dynamics. But activists like Bulang are hopeful that change is on the horizon, offering a chance for freedom and happiness for those trapped in marriages they wish to leave behind.
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